Monday, November 15, 2010
Been a year
I knew our one year anniversary in our house was coming up soon, but I didn't realize it had already come and gone a couple days ago until Jeff said something. This year has flown in our new home. We have been in Branson now for almost a year and a half, but it seemed like life never really began until we had our home.
For the first time I finally feel like I am where I am meant to be. This is the third home we have owned. In all the other homes I always new that we were going to move. I was always on a mission to make sure the house looked organized and clutter free because I knew that we would sell someday, and I figured if I was used to living that way it wouldn't be a big deal when I was expected to do so for showings. It was exhausting. It's interesting how my perspective has changed since we have lived in this home. I still hate clutter, but part of me has relaxed about some things. Once upon a time the only thing that sat on my kitchen counters were my knives and stovetop spoons. Everything else had a hiding space in a cabinet somewhere and I would get it out when I needed it and put it away as soon as I was done. Now I have my can opener, coffee maker, knives, spoons, food processor, flour and sugar out on my counters for whenever I need them. I'm so sick of hauling that stuff out and putting it away all the time. It's nice to have it all handy whenever I need it (which is often). One of the best things about our home is that everything is new and doesn't need to be fixed or redone. Granted we have had our fair share of things that we've had to call the home warranty about, but none of it was a deal breaker and the warranty people had to fix them.
Our neighborhood is probably the best we've ever had. We have become great friends with several of our neighbors. I take the kids to our driveway to play often and it is not uncommon for one of them to pull up a lawn chair and chat for awhile while the kiddos play. We all look out for each other. I know when we go out of town, I can trust one of them to take care of my plants, fish, or get our mail. Some of them are happy to watch the girls when we need a night out. We have even started what we hope will be an annual culdesac BBQ. Although we made connections to some of our neighbors in our other towns, it has never been quite like this. Neighbors can really make your house feel more like home. We had the best halloween we've ever had and we didn't have to go anywhere to create this fun experience except right outside our front door thanks to our awesome neighbors.
The area we live in is so BEAUTIFUL! There are a ton of things to do. Living in a vacation hot spot is a lot like being on a vacation nonstop. I don't feel that badly that we rarely get to go on vacation because we are still in the mode of exploring the community we live in and doing vacation like things. The kids have just as much fun, there is no travel involved, and at the end of the day we get to go back to our own beds in the comfort of our own home. I suppose I even appreciate Springfield more than I used to since living in Branson. Why? If Branson doesn't have it, we know Springfield will. We still continue to use Springfield libraries, parks, thrift stores, and Aldi in Springfield. We get to make a day trip out of it, so it almost feels like another little vacation. In addition to Springfield, there are other national parks, lakes, and area attractions that are only a short drive away for a fun little day trip.
I have heard nothing but good things about the schools our girls will be attending. This is a first for an area that we have lived in. It sure brings this Mama's heart comfort when I think about waving goodbye as I watch my firstborn be carried off by a yellow school bus in less than a year. What a hard moment that will be for me. It helps to know that the school she will be attending has gotten rave reviews.
So as I reflect on this past year in our house, I can honestly say at last I am home. I belong. It feels good. I am blessed. Thank you Jesus for bringing me home, at last!
Friday, November 12, 2010
For women only
O.K. I've been thinking about this post for some time. I know this is weird blog material, but I'm pretty sure all my readers are women, so what the heck. I've discovered something that has made my life easier as a woman. I was hesitant to try it at first, but when I started running it seemed so much better than what I was using. It also lined up with my new resolve to get and stay green.
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I didn't really want to get too descriptive on this blog. Most reviews were very positive about this product. I was a little nervous about it at first and knew there was going to be a learning curve. The first few days of use were a little challenging, but I read other users suggestions on a few websites, and now I can say it's pretty easy and oh so nice. Much less of a hassle than what I was using. So in effort to help some other woman out there that doesn't like dealing with that time of the month, maybe you'll find this as helpful as I did. I only wish I knew about this sooner.
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I didn't really want to get too descriptive on this blog. Most reviews were very positive about this product. I was a little nervous about it at first and knew there was going to be a learning curve. The first few days of use were a little challenging, but I read other users suggestions on a few websites, and now I can say it's pretty easy and oh so nice. Much less of a hassle than what I was using. So in effort to help some other woman out there that doesn't like dealing with that time of the month, maybe you'll find this as helpful as I did. I only wish I knew about this sooner.
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Prayer for a daughter
While I was on the subject of that book Bringing up Girls. I also wanted to share a prayer that was in the book. So touching.
"Heavenly Father, thank You for a daughter like Sherrie. Thank You for blessing her and putting her in this family. Thank You for helping her find You at an early. age. Protect her tonight as she sleeps and tomorrow as she goes through her day. Keep her from the enemy and from harm. Help her to find a godly husband in Your time. In Jesus' name, amen."
A girl that Dr. James Dobson interviewed said that her father prayed this same prayer over her every night. How sweet is that? Years later as a young adult, she never forgot it.
"Heavenly Father, thank You for a daughter like Sherrie. Thank You for blessing her and putting her in this family. Thank You for helping her find You at an early. age. Protect her tonight as she sleeps and tomorrow as she goes through her day. Keep her from the enemy and from harm. Help her to find a godly husband in Your time. In Jesus' name, amen."
A girl that Dr. James Dobson interviewed said that her father prayed this same prayer over her every night. How sweet is that? Years later as a young adult, she never forgot it.
Bringing up Girls
My new read Bringing up Girls by Dr. James Dobson came highly recommended to me. I had to wait 3 months on a waiting list just to check it out from the library. It surprised me that 3 chapters are devoted to the roll of a father in a daughter's life and only one chapter is devoted to a mother. One chapter in particular takes some quotes from another book called Father to Daughter: Life lessons on Raising a Girl. Some of the quotes were just too good not to share. I had a lump in my throat by the end of this chapter. I wanted to share a few of them with you if you don't mind. For those of you with girls I'm sure you'll find this as amusing as I did.
*Her mom will show her how to bake chocolate chip cookies. You show her how to dunk them in milk.
*Be prepared to watch Walt Disney movies with her some 200 times. Each.
*Relish the moments when she toddles up and for no reason at all throws her arms around your neck Resist the urge to buy her the world.
*Keep her secrets. This way she will begin to trust men.
*Take her to the golf course with you. Give her a sawed-off club she can use to whack balls around.
*Don't miss a recital, concert, play, or any other performance of hers. Not now. Not until she graduates.
*Accept the fact that the loving, tender angel you've spent the last decade with may disappear sometimes. She will return.
*Remember, teenage girls spend hours in their room doing something. No man has ever really figured out what that something is.
*Remember, when you're dealing with a 13-year-old girl, for all intents and purposes, you're dealing with a fruitcake.
*Accept the fact that girls squeal when they're happy or confused or excited or scared or because they just saw a certain boy in line.
*Volunteer to drive her and her friends to the movies. Then just listen while they talk.
*You will have to teach her how to drive...without making her cry.
*Make it very clear that you expect her to wear a seat belt. Even over her prom dress.
*Odd-looking boys will start showing up at yoru house. This is to be expected because adolescent boys are odd-looking.
*Teach her how to look a boy in the eye and say "No."
*Understand that if she suddenly becomes a football fanatic even though she hates the game, you can be sure a boy is involved.
*Teach her that if she acts stupid to attract boys, she'll attract stupid boys.
*If a boy pulls up and honks for her, go out and have words with him. Explain that your daughter answers to a doorbell.
*Remember, every girl's heart gets broken. There's nothing you can do to fix it. Hunting down the boy won't help. On the other hand, she will also break a few hearts herself.
*You have no power over how much makeup, shampoo, suntan lotion, skin creams, hair color treatment, mascara, eyeliner, perfume, cologne, body wash, and bath lotion she will buy. Accept this and move on.
*Teach her to respect herself.
*Prepare for the day when you're not the most important man in her life.
*Have a look around her room. Take a moment to look at her pictures, her photos, her keepsakes. These are her memories. This was the childhood you gave her.
*Tell her she is the daughter you always dreamed about.
*In the end, let her go.
Crying yet? The list had many more points, but I didn't want to write a 4 page blog post. Like them? If you have a little girl, check it out. It's a good read. Your girl(s) are worth it.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Yellow Squash Cookies
Sometimes I find a recipe that blows me away. Monday afternoon it was just me and the girls. My freezer is LOADED with pureed veggies. I felt like making veggie cookies of some kind. Just searched for some recipes online and came up with this one. I made a few changes to accomodate what I had on hand and it tasted like homemade cinnamon rolls to me. Yummy! I plan on making them for breakfast turkey morning.
Here's a link to the site with the recipe:
http://www.noordinarymomentsblog.com/2009/07/yellow-squash-cookies.html
My changes:
.5 C brown sugar instead of honey
1 Cup pureed sweet potatoes instead of 2 C shredded squash
I made a frosting out of milk and powdered sugar to give it that cinnamon roll effect
Other than that, followed it to a T. Awesome!
Here's a link to the site with the recipe:
http://www.noordinarymomentsblog.com/2009/07/yellow-squash-cookies.html
My changes:
.5 C brown sugar instead of honey
1 Cup pureed sweet potatoes instead of 2 C shredded squash
I made a frosting out of milk and powdered sugar to give it that cinnamon roll effect
Other than that, followed it to a T. Awesome!
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Mad quacking skills
First time I have used vimeo. Hope this works. It seems to be very skippy on my computer, but maybe that's my interenet service. Anyhoo....thought this was cute and very representative of Bren's speech development. Please excuse Kadyn's nose picking. We're working on it. Anyhow the first one shows her barking skills and the second one shows her quacking skills.
Bren sings from Darci Bilberry on Vimeo.
Bren sings 2 from Darci Bilberry on Vimeo.
Bren sings from Darci Bilberry on Vimeo.
Bren sings 2 from Darci Bilberry on Vimeo.
Monday, November 8, 2010
I remember...
....doing this exact thing as a child. Something amazing about watching cookies cook. The girls are anxiously awaiting their sweet potatoe cookies. Aw childhood. So full of wonder.
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